Women and Their Insecurities

Completely off topic but I wanted to post my frustrations. Nothing chaps my ass more then a insecure woman. But as I say this I have to stop and ask myself who is truly the insecure one. I have a lot of guy friends. Honestly I just get along better with guys. I don't have that fake happy "I'm gonna be nice to you even though I want to claw your eyes out" bone. So why are women so insecure? My buddy just got a new girlfriend and her insecurities are waving in the wind like a surrender flag. I have not done anything for this chick to think I want her man but I have been shut down because of her. So at first I got my panties in a bunch and made a stink. Of course my friend told me to chill out and he would explain everything. I, of course, didn't give him the chance. I woke up the next day after my pantie issue and realized it was none of my business and didn't need an explanation. If his pursuit of love included a grown women who felt intimated by him having female friends then I had to respect her insecurities. So the real question is who is insecure? Am I for being upset that my friend "dissed" me (well up until yesterday) for a girl friend. Or is she insecure? Now, keep in mind that if one of the few female friends I would have done the same thing I would be just as upset. I want to make it clear I am not in like, in lust, or in love with my friend.